My spouse has not cheated (that I am aware of) but is consumed with having relations with me. He is on then expects me to be the loving caring wife.
He accuses the kids of lying and doing things they are not doing.
You have done everything you can to help support him.
Ultimately it's up to your husband to take ownership of this illness and work on his stability. I have educated my self and started therapy since he has been gone. I have a good job right now but I am wondering if I am going to have to leave that job to care for my husband or what is the best course to take.
I feel so traumatized from that relationship that I cannot imagine ever attempting to date another man again.
Thank goodness, I have an appointment with a counsellor to see I'm so sorry Kate101.
Yes, you and your children deserve to be happy and stress free.
I did see a therapist of my own for a period of time but all she said was leave him and at the time I wasn't willing to do that. He has not been able to keep a job since last year.
He has episodes were he researches things on the computer for hours and doesn't eat or sleep. He refuses to take medicine and recently says he doesn't trust me because I will not help him research.