And deliver her ex the one-two punch of becoming the most awesome, caring boyfriend your gal’s ever seen, while joking once in a while about her ex’s patchy goatee or the time he split his pants on the dance floor.3) When the Third Wheel Rolls too Close to Home Does your girlfriend have a platonic friend, who seems innocent, harmless, sexless, and always on the phone with her? Unless he’s her brother or first cousin, or prefers the romantic company of other men, his affections for her run deeper than friendship—he’s just trapped in the friend zone, too timid to make a pass, yet too dumb to move on to another girl.He could be a genuine friend who simply has deep affection for her—or he could be a fox who’s coming around to revisit the local henhouse.A lot of famous and infamous guys, especially those who are on the lower rungs of fame, see female conquests as a scorecard.
I understand your romantic life is a personal and touchy subject.
He’ll get the message about what a serious role you play in her life, and she’ll notice the contrast between her lover and her lapdog.
4) When the Famous Friend Comes Calling In cities such as New York and Los Angeles, Nashville and San Francisco, it often happens that a friend of a friend is someone who’s been on television or the radio not so long ago.
He’s not a casual friend: he’s a confidant, and she may be tempted to share more than just words with him.
It’s okay to let her know that you’re uncomfortable with her seeing someone of the opposite sex so often when you’re not around.