Thus it’s tremendously important to focus on non-verbal subtle signs, like shy eye contact or by behaving a bit awkward.
Japanese language itself is quite a subtle language.
I’m making You Tube videos because I noticed a lot of foreigners are very skeptical when it comes to dating in Japan.
It makes me sad that some think it’s impossible and give up before even trying, especially foreign women.
In my opinion, it’s necessary that foreign women become more pro-active. This might be scary at first, especially if you’ve grown up in an environment where it was ok to play the “shy girl”.
But just because a Japanese guy isn’t approaching you actively, doesn’t necessarily mean he’s not interested.
In comparison, most Japanese men are too shy and reversed to do that.
My You Tube channel, “Find Your Love in Japan” is mainly about dating in Japan.That’s probably one reason why we’re careful how and what we convey. It’s hard to tell whether a Japanese guy is interested in you or not.So, I want you to pay very close attention to their body language.It might be difficult to notice at first, but we definitely show some sort of interest or subtle emotion.In our culture, we heavily rely on non-verbal communication.